Have you gone out with someone and then tried to remain friends?  When doing so, have you found yourself blurring the lines?  Ah yes, you are not alone.  It’s great if you can remain friends after a break-up, but many cannot, and you just have to do what’s right for you.  The real question you have to answer is this: how can you move on if you stay stuck in limbo with this person who is essentially acting as a place-holder?

Natalie Lue, who is the author of Mr. Unavailable & the Fallback Girl is hilarious, and in addition to her informative blog about dating & relationships, she has a couple of great videos on her website: www.baggagereclaim.com

Here she does a great job in this short video of explaining why you should not let your exs put you on the list for a booty call:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-VmaMf5kJls