DC and MD Matrimonial Lawyer Focusing on Custody, Divorce and Prenups
For over 20 years, Regina A. DeMeo has been helping families in MD and DC with custody and divorce issues either through mediation, litigation or advocacy. She is an alumna of Georgetown University and GW University Law School, who is nationally recognized as a top matrimonial attorney. She is frequently quoted in the media for her ideas to promote healthier relationships and featured in the Washington Post, ABA Journal and Bethesda Magazine for her care and commitment to her clients. As a legal commentator, she has appeared on Washington Post Express Facebook Live, ABC tv, Good Morning America, MMCTV, YouTube and Sirius XM, and has been quoted in various magazines, books and journals across the country.
Regina offers appointments in Maryland and DC. Her areas of practice include:
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The Joys of Being Married
There are a lot of lists out there espousing the virtues of being single, and some idiot even got me a book listing all the reasons it is great to be single-- but if being single is so great, let me ask you this: why is it that over 80% of Americans still believe in the importance of tying the knot??? Let's be real, while I realize that over the last 8 years many of my married friends have often lived vicariously through me and my hilarious dating stories, they also know that I hate coming home to an empty apartment after a huge win, or receiving some great news. The silence that follows a day full of great highs just plain sucks-- and yet it is in those moments that I remember all the reasons it was so great to be married to my best friend. For those that maybe have not yet experienced being in a great partnership, or sadly may have forgotten the positives about married life, here is a glimpse into what makes that walk down the aisle so worth while-- when you do find the right one: 1. Meals Together- It really isn't fun to eat a bowl of cereal by myself, even as entertaining as I may be in my own mind. Seriously, being able to share a meal with a loved one is just so awesome, and something [...]
5 Tips for Surviving the Holidays
As we all gear up for the holidays, I find a lot of people are excited to have a few days off, but dreading the commute and perhaps intense amounts of time with loved ones, who can drive us crazy with their probing questions or inappropriate comments. The reality is, only those dearest to us can take such liberties with us that the rest of the world wouldn't dare try. But rather than just grin and bear it, here are 5 tips to make for a more enjoyable holiday with your family: 1. Set Your Own Boundaries-If there is something you don't want to discuss, think about how you will decline to engage in the conversation before it even comes up. Practice whatever line you want to say a few times, so this way, if the moment arises, you have it down like a champ. I suggest something short and sweet like "I really don't want to talk about that right now." 2. Take a Time Out- If you feel yourself getting upset or on edge, don't reach for the booze. Instead, go for a walk, bike ride, or run. If that's not your style, then say you need to take a nap or bring a good book and go to a quiet room for some alone time. Just as [...]
6 Things Most Lawyers Wish They Could Say to Clients
Tonight I have the privilege of presenting at GW University, where I get to share my thoughts on what it is like to practice law in the 21st century. I have put a lot of thought into the message I want to convey-- because I know it is a grim market out there, and yet I like to be the messenger of hope. Remaining an optimist after 15 years as a divorce attorney may seem odd, but honestly, it is all in how you view things. I don't see myself as someone that tears families apart. In reality, the damage has already been done way before anyone comes to see me, so it is all about damage control as I work to restructure the family's ties. All that being said, there are 5 things I think clients should be cognizant of in order to preserve a healthy attorney-client relationship: 1. Babysitting is expensive. I liked babysitting when I was a teenager, but that is not the best use of someone's resources at my current rates these days. I get paid to put out fires-- major ones every day. So, when you get assignments and deadlines from me or the court, do your best to stick to them without requiring a lot of hand-holding. 2. Listen carefully. You are in crisis mode, which means you are not thinking clearly. I'm doing my [...]
7 Signs That S/he Just Isn’t That Into You
Sometimes, we only see what we want to see, and we are incapable of seeing what everyone else around us can see. My dad told me that a few years ago, and it has stuck with me ever since-- especially when I'm asked to weigh in on the dating scene. I'm not quite sure why this happens, but somehow it is incredibly common for someone to miss the signs that the person they are with is just not that into them. Here are some examples of what you need to watch out for: 1. My work/travel schedule is just so hectic, that's why I can't see you more than once a month. 2. I'm at a place in my life where I really can't commit to anything- don't take it personally. 3. Well, maybe I could see us moving forward, but you really need to move closer, this distance/commute is a real pain. 4. Can we change your wardrobe around a bit? 5. Have you thought about getting a personal trainer or getting a makeover? 6. Will you let me help you redecorate? 7. Since I don't have anything in common with your close friends, can you just hang with them on your own time? What do these things tell you??? This person clearly isn't interested in making you a priority and/or doesn't accept the package being presented, [...]