DC and MD Matrimonial Lawyer Focusing on Custody, Divorce and Prenups
For over 20 years, Regina A. DeMeo has been helping families in MD and DC with custody and divorce issues either through mediation, litigation or advocacy. She is an alumna of Georgetown University and GW University Law School, who is nationally recognized as a top matrimonial attorney. She is frequently quoted in the media for her ideas to promote healthier relationships and featured in the Washington Post, ABA Journal and Bethesda Magazine for her care and commitment to her clients. As a legal commentator, she has appeared on Washington Post Express Facebook Live, ABC tv, Good Morning America, MMCTV, YouTube and Sirius XM, and has been quoted in various magazines, books and journals across the country.
Regina offers appointments in Maryland and DC. Her areas of practice include:
Latest Blog Posts by GenXSmartie
Change Your Pad, Change Your Life
This past week, my friend Phillip, who owns Burning Tree Builders in Bethesda agreed to share some tips for couples about to embark on a home renovation project. Among the most important things he recommends for surviving the demolition of your home are the following: 1. Set a Realistic Budget- Be honest with your architect and builder about your cap for your project. It is their goal to make you happy, and they don't want to sell you on something you can't afford-- that won't do anyone any good. 2. Do Your Homework- Interview a few builders, research them, and make your selection not just based on the cheapest bid. Remember, you get what you pay for. Check references and make sure they are licensed, bonded and insured. 3. Be Flexible- Unexpected delays do happen, so don't think the completion date is set in stone, think of it more as a target date. Also sometimes materials are out of stock or no longer available, so be ready to make some changes. 4. Communication is Key- Check in regularly with your builder about how the project is progressing and if you don't like something, speak up sooner rather than later. Remember, these people are trying to help you obtain an end product that you will be happy with for quite some time. Pick one person to the spokesperson [...]
With Kids, 15 Ways to Lead By Example
As a kid, I always hated that saying, "do as I say, not as I do." It didn't make any sense back then, and it still makes no sense to me now. The easiest way for kids to learn something is through observation, which means we really have to be careful as parents and role models, and we need to lead by example. The last couple of years, after I got done teaching my son the basics, I put a lot of thought into life lessons I wanted to teach him, and of course that meant I'd have to try to live this way myself. Many of these pearls of wisdom come from my clients and elders, who looking back expressed deep regret for not having learned and passed on to the next generation these facts of life: 1. Say I'm Sorry- It is okay to admit when you were wrong; it's not going to kill anyone. No one is perfect, and we all make mistakes, but you need to show remorse. A little humility goes a long way in making amends. 2. Be Forgiving- People will constantly disappoint you in life, but for your own sanity, don't hold a grudge. Depending on the transgression, some of which may be truly inhumane and inexcusable, you don't have to accept someone's apology, but you also don't have to harbor resentment or let delusions of [...]
Use All Six Senses When Out on the Prowl
I know we are supposed to be this wonderfully evolved species, but at the end of the day let's not forget where we came from and ignore our natural instincts. When you are out there hunting, you need to tap into all six senses, and the more you do, I promise the more fun you will have out on the prowl. Let me explain a little more clearly... 1. Sight- Do not minimize the importance of visual appeal, it is a normal part of how we become attracted to someone. Pay attention to details-- are they well groomed, well dressed, well mannered? These things all say a lot about a person, and they do matter. 2. Sound- When you hear this person's voice, do you find yourself melting or does it sound like nails on a chalk board? When they laugh, does it make you want to giggle or cringe? Their sounds should soothe you, not annoy you. 3. Smell- We all have our own individual smell, and what attracts one may repel another. If you think their scent is offensive before they get all hot and sweaty, it will only get worse in bed. Meanwhile, a scent that lures you will seriously bring out the animal inside when you are in the sack. 4. Touch- Some people will surprise you-- they may seem cold and reserved, but then [...]
Size Really Does Matter
Get your mind out of the gutter-- I'm not talking about any body parts here. But when you are sizing up whether someone makes a good partner, there are some things that really do matter: 1. What's in your wallet? Sad but true, most of us in a post-recession mindset don't want to get involved with a financial basketcase. Being fiscally responsible is a very attractive feature for both men and women, and neither side wants to be with a gold digger. So if you want to date well, clean up your balance sheet. 2. What's you dress/pant size? Really, let's be honest, physical appearance counts for a lot. If you are going to be out on the market, you need to look good. Eating healthy and exercising are not just good for your overall health, these habits will make a huge difference in your sex life. HUGE. 3. What's your IQ? I'm keeping it real here-- no one wants to date or marry down, especially when it comes to brain power. Truly, your ability to understand and connect with each other is going to depend a tremendous amount on how you communicate and relate to one another. Let's face it, if I was the nerdy chick at the front of the class in 4th grade asking for extra credit work, meanwhile you were the [...]